You guys know that I am brutally honest on my blog. I am even brutally honest about myself. I make fun of myself any chance I get, and I am totally full of shit 90% of the time.
Some people don't get me.
I received my first anonymous hater comment the other day on a post that is about a month and a half old. Because it is past the 14-day publishing date, I have to moderate the comment.
Anonymous claims that I won't let anyone see the comment because my "type" can't take the criticism.
I disagree.
Here is the comment:
"Are you freakin kidding me? they thought you were in high school? Yeah right! Sorry but you are not an attractive model and your blog is narcism personified. Guess you won't approve THAT comment! Haha your type can't take criticism and certainly wouldn't let others see it."
BAM. I have never been prouder of myself.
Of everything I have posted here today, this is my favorite. Why? Because it is obnoxiously bright. It isn't just neon. It is three different shades of neon. In-your-face neon. Balls-to-the-wall neon. How could I not love it?
Christopher Kane accents a white shift dress with a rainbow burst on both the front and back of the dress so you can wow your admirers coming and going. This is a man who thinks things through.
In contrast to the above Zanottis, these Brian Atwood's a little more understated (as understated as neon can be). These would be more appropriate for the office, for the grocery store, or to wear on a walk through the park.
I'm kidding.
Or am I?
Fuchsia is one of my favorite neon colors because it is flattering on every skin tone and body type. Even though it is past the season right now for a T-shirt and shorts, I think I would brave the cold weather just to wear this outfit. It's that cute.
It amazes me that people that hate take extra time to comment. Isn't it just easier to make fun of someone in your head as you're pushing the "close" button? At least that's what I do. But I'm really lazy.... Anyway, I love the full on fushia outfit. I'd rock it.
ReplyDeleteSarah
http://comingunstitched.blogspot.com
Haters gonna hate. I despise anonymous comments. It's mostly insulting and I wish they would find another place to take out their anger.
ReplyDeleteI love fucsia too! :)
ReplyDeleteI love the shoes you posted, especially the Zanotti ones!
About the haters...well, who cares about them? We can't please anyone :)
xoxo
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amazing :))
ReplyDeleteI love all the colours in this post- Christoper Kane is amazing, I'm obsessed with that dress. Also don't worry about hate comments!
ReplyDeleteDude, you're famous! A hate comment. They say only the popular bloggers get hate comment ;)
ReplyDeleteI love the Christopher Kane dress! omg love the colours and how the white off-sets it a little bit so it's not a walking rainbow.
Why do you hate H&M, btw?
It's sad to receive hateful comments but we need to realize they aren't about us; they're a projection by the commentor. Only a psychologically damaged person would take the trouble to spread venom.
ReplyDeleteLMAO at the haterz! Love the neon everything, great picks darlin!
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Lia
As for the comment - haters gonna hate. It's really easy to be big and brave with BS comments behind the name "Anonymous." Anonymous is such a coward, and completely wrong, by the way.
ReplyDeleteLove the bright colors! Have a fab weekend :)
Haters amuse me. Like BAM they have the nerve to write that bullshit on your forum because they're losers hiding under obscurity.
ReplyDeleteI think your blog is one of the nicest I know and haha, Anonymous, self love is the best love.Just in case.
And these clothes were so bright.Loved them.
Esp the last tee and shorts.-.-
I agree with the girls. It just amazes me that someone takes so much time and effort to spread hate comments... Get a life... X
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I want that prism dress! I've been seeing it all over the place and it is gorgeous!
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I pity 'anonymous' they show their idiocy though their words. I just don't understand haters, there is never a need to be nasty.
ReplyDeleteAnyhoo, I love those suede pumps, it's such a brilliant material to have in a neon shade, the texture almost mutes the colour in a way, lovely.
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F*^$ the naysayers. That's what I think. You just keep on doing you. ;)
ReplyDeleteAnd that suede colorblock pump is sexy. :D
xx Jessica
people like that are cynical and use the internet to hide and prod at others trying to make themselves feel better - epic fail, they couldn't be more wrong... you rock girl!!!
ReplyDeleteWell done, and screw that asshole. You're awesome.
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Lovely pieces. I love the brightness of the colors. So funky. I'm pretty sure you'd look good on them. :-)
ReplyDeleteMuch love from Mystic Nymph.
I love those color block pumps! cute!
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Loving all the items! That's very brave from anonymous, to come here without name, write a comment to an old post where most of the people might not even see it, and then claim that you don't have the guts. Brave indeed. :D these haters really make me laugh. Hopefully you can laugh at it too. Have a great weekend! xoxo
ReplyDeleteI love that MK outfit in hot pink.
ReplyDeleteLet the haters be doing their thing while we be doing ours. =) I'm following you now! Follow me too if you like my blog !
ReplyDeleteNothing better than when 'anonymous' starts telling you what your 'type' is.
ReplyDeleteI don't typically get too many, but someone laid into me pretty good a couple months ago. What can you do? A little hate is always fun...
loving these bright colors!
ReplyDeleteHey thanks for your comment =) ! I'm gona have a look around your blog too !
ReplyDeleteHaters are idiots. They don't know what's going on in your life and they judge you.
xxx Vee
I love all these picks! I am a color fiend <3 As for anonymous haters, thankfully I haven't gotten any such comments yet, but I'm sure they're coming because my blog is totally "narcisism personified" LOL! Isn't that the point? All in good fun, I say XD I don't care if I get judged by somebody who doesn't know me either, and hugs and support to you, Bonnie!
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Yeah in your face haters!! They can be so stupid...
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OHMYGOSH. I want those shoes. It'd be like Easter on my feet or something.
ReplyDeleteYeah, trolls suck. I get them a lot on YouTube and on my acting website. I'm sure the tro-lo-lolling will pick up once winter break is upon us, since they'll have more time to waste on being assholes!
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Hii :)
ReplyDeleteOh, you have your first hater! I never have one, I want!hahaha
You have to ignore him, you're more attractive, cute and nice than a model :)
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Well you know you're starting to make it big when you start to get haters ;)
ReplyDeletei don't understand that whole 'your type' thing. i say whatevs...if people don't like your blog then why do they spend time commenting--i will never get that.
ReplyDeletelove those colorblock shoes hun!
I'll 2nd the haters gonna hate comment because 1) its true 2) I like saying it.
ReplyDeleteLove the zanotti heels !
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Gorgeous color combos. Love the shoes.
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LMBO!!! - THANKS FOR STOPPING BY - and I didn't check out your entire blog to see if I would find you interesting, I only read this one and new I had to follow - you are funny - and you sound like me! sooooo, just know that if someone isnt hatin' then you aint doing something right babe. welcome one, welcome all!!!
ReplyDeleteoh, and I love those shoes...lol :) and you come back you hear! wiiiiinning!
P.S. yes, please remember me when your azz becomes famous! Smuch!
ReplyDeleteLove the Michael Kors look... so fun, I love hot pink! xx
ReplyDeleteI love that you posted the comment! Haters gonna hate is what I always say. I'd give them a little more credit if they didn't post as anonymous.
ReplyDeleteOn a happier note, I'm loving those B Brian Atwood pumps.
Good for you for posting the comment! The anons drive me crazy!!!
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haters. don't let them mess with you. they're everywhere. Also I'm pro neon. In the right setting of course :)
ReplyDeleteGo neon! Also, the anonymous commentor is lame because they had to stay anonymous. No class or balls.
ReplyDeletehaha i get anon hate too i laugh at them lol
ReplyDeletethat's crazy!!! i can't believe someone would write something like that to you... love all the colors in this post
ReplyDeletehave a nice weekend!
WOW! I love that rainbow dress! x
ReplyDeleteWow! That person took the time to make that comment and on an old post. Wow- they need to get a life. I just don't do neons- I wore enough in the 80's for two lifetimes.
ReplyDeleteBoth shoes are great!
ReplyDeleteAnd I love the last pink-girly outfit! haha
Have a nice weekend <3
Those Brian Atwood pumps are gorgeous! Thanks for stoping by my blog, hope you´ve liked it, would love if you could follow me.
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Ignore your haters. Everyone has different tastes, but anonymously bashing someone else is not cool. Breathe, and move on. Karma will take care of it. x
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What an awful comment to receive, it reflects worse on them though, they had to be anonymous to post it at the start. I think everyone who blogs receives hate sometimes, it's awful but I feel as though it's because they know they can get away with it. Love the colour block pumps :).
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Nice shoes!
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Anon hate mail is just ridiculous. I just don't get why anyone would want to waste their time writing it. Take no notice hun, we all love you x
ReplyDeletei love colorful shoes!
ReplyDeleteIgnore those haters Bonnie! You're sweet and smart girl and everyone can see that! I love that Michael Kors bright tee and mini shorts! They will totally give me lots of attention :-) xoxoxoo
ReplyDeleteSuch fun pieces. I loe fucsia too, adds so much color to an outfit!
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love your choice!great blog!http://msfashionstreet.blogspot.com/
ReplyDeletelove all the brights!!
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molliee
Anonymous can go shove it! You know what they say about haters. They're always jealous. Always!
ReplyDeleteLove the Suede Colorblock Pump.
Gayatri
It is really sad that someone took time out of their lives to say hurtful things to you. This person seriously needs to re-prioritize and get a life. You are wonderful, don't listen to them!
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You're fabulous darling and don't ever forget it. And Glam girl's always stick together ;) xo -Taj
ReplyDeleteDon't worry about the comment too much, some people are just spiteful.
ReplyDeleteOn another note, as someone who doesn't normally like neon I'm surprisingly lusting after the last monochromatic neon pink one! Stunning!
Hi hunnie, I tried to post earlier from work and your blog is blocked, lol. You have the right to be honest, this is YOUR blog, with your own opinions. I had a creepy comment myself yesterday....just erased it and moved on:)
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these pieces are so awesome! I love love these colors :)
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Bonnie, no matter how well you do things, or how bad, there will always be haters. I don't know what motivates these people and why they think negativity trumps positivity, but I'm glad you don't let them get to you. Good for you! And may I say I took one look at the fuchsia cashmere Michael Kors tee and swooned? Some day I shall own something that fabulous! Thanks for dropping by my blog and commenting! :)
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ayay! dont waste your time on theme, just keep going what you love to do ;-) I love the shoes they are gorgeous!
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Bonnie, when people send things "anonymous" it's just a another name for big ZERO...no name, no guts, just a bully action. Keep doing what you do and enjoy your life as always because it's obvious the majority rules here...we love ya!
ReplyDeleteAnonymous is dumb - you are gorgeous and take brilliant pictures. I love your blog - in fact, this post title made me laugh upon opening your blog. You rock.
ReplyDeletesuch a nice post! pink and yellow are my favorite colors! that's why i adore all the items here!
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I followed your blog, hope you can follow back, too!
Thanks!
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Hey, they say that you haven't made it big until you receive your first hater comment so congradulations! And good for you for bringing that anonymous sh*t out in the open. One thing that i love about you bonnie is that you have balls- i may not be on blogger all the time now (hence the few comments) but I always have your back :)
ReplyDeleteI dont get people who leave hater comments on blogs.. Come on people, if you dont like it, THEN DONT READ IT! Glad you rised above :) Have a great weekend!
ReplyDeleteGirl you know you ROCK! Screw the haters. Jealous bitches > just ignore the trolls. Love the shoes! Love you!
ReplyDeleteWho cares about the haters! forget them my dear, they have nothing else better to do. Love these colorful items you've posted ;) Have a great weekend dear.
ReplyDeletedon't worry about the negative comment !
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omg, that is so obnoxious. but i love that you took the negative and spat it out and then gave us a rainbow of fashion, lol, lol. really only you, friend.
ReplyDeleteDoesn't it make you wonder why they would even bother to read and comment on your blog if they didn't secretly think you were the bomb? that's my theory anyway :)
ReplyDeleteOh wow! That's crazy! People still send hate comments!??? Know that you're doing everything right and it bothers them so they have to do what they can (anonymously) to try and shift that =]. GREAT BLOG! Don't change!
ReplyDeleteThat pink MK crew + shorts is AMAZING. I can just see myself wearing that, sitting on a yacht in St. Barth's. ;)
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Trolling on blogger, especially people's personal blogs, is bizarre to me. It's got to be a pretty short-lived thrill when no one can really respond back.
ReplyDeleteBut at least this hater comment got you a new follower! Great personality and style here.
i can't believe you got such a rude comment. i'm so sorry and that person is lame. love the looks! the bright colors are fantastic. i really love the bright pink outfit!
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gorgeous! ♥
ReplyDeleteWell I guess there's a reason why haters are often anonymous, it just goes to prove how utterly cowardly they are! And comments like that certainly says more about the person commenting than the person receiving the comment. Stay true to your self, and thanks for stopping by my blog:)
ReplyDeleteI love every item in this post, the neon colours together are gorgeous. I definitely like the second pair of shoes the most. In relation to the anonymous comment, I'm so sorry you had to experience that. It definitely isn't fair, I love your blog! Make sure it doesn't change you. Personally, my favourite types of blogs are those where people are completely honest about themselves.
ReplyDeleteThe Christopher Kane Prism Dress needs to be mine! :)
ReplyDeletegreat coloring i like your site and theme is also nice
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beautiful shoes!
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Okay REALLY!? I love how people think they're being so awesome posting anonymously. BTW if you're bad ass enough to leave nasty comments at least back your shit up and leave your name.
ReplyDeletePeople are stupid.
Oh I LOVE the rainbow dress! IN fact I love anything rainbowy! Boo hiss to the anonymous hater! How can she not get how witty and fun you are and how you poke fun at yourself! Ignore them, I think you're fab!
ReplyDeleteOh common!! i'm so over with these haters stuff. Sometimes i get confuse with them, if they don't like that blog, why they even throw their energy to type some silly comment?? *WEIRD*
ReplyDeleteHoney, this is your blog just do whatever you want!! we still love you :)
Tks for left comment at my blog, i really appreciate it. Following you now.
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Wow ! The Kane's dress is so amazing !
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What if you wore neon shoes with a neon dress? That'd be cool. Right? Right.
ReplyDeletethis comment is really stupid^^
ReplyDeletei really like the dress. the whitee and the colours are amazing.
I love the dress on the last picture, and good that you let stupid anonymous-haters get to you
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xoxo Sootjeelina <3
Love all of the brightness!
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Love the suede colorblock high heels!!! Thanks for your lovely comment dear! Are you sure that you're follow me by GFC? Because you don't appear on my GFC Followers list...Check it please! Then, I’ll follow you!!!
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I love both sandals! And don't take care to the anonymous comments!
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Geeezz what a twat! O_O I love your response though you're hilarious! Anoymous comments scare me a little, i find it a little creepy that they're just out there hiding behing their computers O_o.
ReplyDeleteThose yellow heels would look terrific on you! xxx
oopppsss *behind not behing O_o my brain has melted evidently! xx
ReplyDeleteA sweet blog!
ReplyDeleteLooooving all the colors!
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Wow, that hater seemed to really have it bad. Sometimes you cant please everyone. The thing is if they do not like your stuff, then they should log out.Nobody is pointing a gun on their head.
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you go girl! tell that hater whos boss! :D i love the color blocking going on in all those heels! so beautiful :)
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oou i like the colorblock print. it's really unique!
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did anonymous comment on this post?? love the haters! haters are just jealous ppl. lol
ReplyDeleteOh, haters. Please do get proper lives.
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ouch!!! very hurtful words, does that person even know how to respect other people? maybe if you really are very close friends or if you two are family, he/she can actually say that to you but i think that person doesn't even know your whole being... i pity that person because he/she envies you a lot.. don't mind that person just bless him coz those kind of people are not happy with their lives so they can't be happy with others success too..i admire you for sharing it..kissess!!!
ReplyDeleteHi, nice clothes! My favourites are those B Brian pumps and Michael Kors' tee and shorts.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, you shouldn't give that comment so much importance, the person behind it doensn't deserve it
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All of these colors are amazing! I love seeing brightness in the so often dim fall. Thanks for sharing, I am now following! Please follow back. =)
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You should be glad you got that comment. Having a hater just shows that you are doing something well in your life. Your goal is if you have 1 hater leaving a comment like that is to have 10 more by the end of the year. If you don't want them, send them my way. They can feel free to hate on me.
ReplyDeleteYou posting that anonymous comment says a lot about you! Very honorable. Don't ever change :)
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love this colorful stuff ♥
ReplyDeletethanks for your comment:)yes this ring is really amazing !! lovely blog have you got!
ReplyDeleteHaters keep hating! *Rolls eyes* v proud of you too! <3
ReplyDeleteLove the BRIGHT shoes :) both pairs certainly lit up my dull Sunday!
Keep rocking rockstar.
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Yay for putting the comment up there for all to see, Bonnie! That's something this person didn't expect :)
ReplyDeleteI'm loving all those colorful shoes!!
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wow nice photos :D
ReplyDeleteIt makes me sad that someone so lovely could get such absurd comments, but you're clearly the bigger person in this scenario, and the fact that you posted it like this just makes them look like even more of a moron xx
ReplyDeleteI like how your hater commenter spelled narcissism wrong. She really showed you. Ha!! Well she's totally wrong, and you are awesome. And so are those neon shoes.
ReplyDeletewhoa that's a bit harsh. I just don't understand what people get out of being mean? And to do it anonymously even? I mean come on! Anyway its great that you handled it really well. thanks for dropping by my blog and following you now :) ps i love fuschia too! xx
ReplyDeleteYou go, girl! And I love those rainbow pumps!
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Love those shoes, they are so fabulous! Bright colors are definitely one of my vices...
ReplyDeleteOh I need that prism dress. And you have only seen the beginning of the neon.....it doesn't stop with those shorts. In fact those are my relatively dull green shorts, my real neon ones are even brighter.
ReplyDeleteLovely heels! I wish I could pull off color like this! I'm more of a black, white and gray girl = )
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Those vibrant colors are like candy!
ReplyDeleteThese shoes are just killing me
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haters going to hate... :)
ReplyDeleteSounds like a pathetic person, well done for publishing the comment!
ReplyDeleteApart from that I really love this post, everything in it is so lustworthy!! Keep up the good work!
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Man, you'd think that if you'd take the time to leave a hate comment, you'd take the time to fucking spellcheck it. Seriously? Narcism? That actually should hurt more than the comment itself :P
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ReplyDeleteThese shoes are so colourful and nice i love them!!!
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Hun honestly I won't lose my time to comment on that "hater situation", those people are so passe... we all know who u are so don't worry!;) I ADORE those pieces, especially the shoes, fantabulous!!!!!! U think they would fit in our closet?;)
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ReplyDeleteI really like that first shoe :D
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